So for the past few days I have been carrying out extensive qualitative and quantitative research in an attempt to find out the top 20 things that women hate about men. The journey was long and hard I tell you, at first the females I asked were very reluctant to tell me because they thought I had some secret agenda for asking them such a question, but when they started, they would not stop, women can talk I tell you, especially when its something on the subject of men and relationships lord have mercy! I was on the phone to a girl and she was going on and on, I actually went downstairs, made a cup of tea, came back and guess what, she was actually still talking!
So were go, I suggest for the male species you have a pen and pad to make notes if you wish to improve your chances of getting a girl, or wonder why females detest you. 13). Touching Their Hair
Women really do hate it when boys touch their hair, do you not know that women spend thousands of pounds every year (
for the posh birds that's monthly) on hair products to make their hair look "beautiful" and shiny and stuff, or do you not see the VO5 adverts "because she's worth it"? They also spend and endless amount of time straightening, curling, bending their hair, I know a few boys who have had to folk out a significant amount of money for her to purchase the famous "GHD's" so when you go touching her hair, take that into account or prepare to get your hair sorry, head bitten off if you do. Also you know a lot of black women have weaves right, you might accidentally uproot it, and well, if that happens all I have to say is may God be with you.
12) Ask Them To Dance
Very simple ain't it? All you need to do say is "do you want to dance or how ever you mack girls in a club" because women hate it when random men come behind them and start grinding their bits against them like a cat on rough carpet, you know what I'm talking about! This one time I was in a club, this dude (fat guy right) started dancing behind this very nice looking female and told his friend to take a picture... You know the next day he had that as his Facebook profile picture.
11). Spitting
It's just a lack of manners isn't it? Women hate it when men spit on the floor when speaking to them. It's not only disrespectful, but its also very disgusting and believe it or not, some people do it!!! "so um yea what's your *spits on the floor* name?" I mean do you really expect her to keep talking to you after that? Just don't do it ok it's just basic!
10) Grabbing Your Genitals
Yes some do it, you know when speaking to a girl, she doesn't want to speak to you while your fiddling with you crown jewels! It's just completely unhygienic and again disgusting! Do you really think that after the conversation she's going to want to hug you, knowing where your hands have been? I'm not too sure about that, she might ask you to wash your hands first.
9). Vanity
It seems that a few men are bit confused between, "being well groomed and taking care of yourself" with "being completely vein and loving yourself more than you love her". Now there's nothing wrong with taking pride in your own appearance, but there is a problem when you look at yourself in the mirror every chance you get, putting back a hair that appears to be out of place, taking longer to get dressed than she does, and having more hair and make up products in the toilet and bedroom than she does (yes men are starting to wear make up, can you believe it? this is a whole different blog in itself), that's just taking things to a whole different level.
8) Cant Take No For An Answer
We have all witnessed it, done it, or been at the receiving end of it. When a guy asks a girs for her number, she says no, but despite being rejected he carries on in attempt to get her to change her mind, again resulting in failure, but oh no he's not having it and resorts to the YRMSIGITFOU (You rejected me, so I'm gonna insult the f*** out of you) and starts shouting at her "kmt stupid b****, I wouldn't f*** anyways!" and "your buttaz!!! gimme me your phone". Its understandable that your ego has been badly bruised, and you look incredibly stupid in front of your friends, but the best thing to do is just walk away, this way no one gets hurt.
7). Talking About Your Sex Life
This is self explanatory. A woman doesn't want to sit down and hear you brag about how many females you have have sexual intercourse with, how it was so amazing and your the only guy to make her buss. I mean do you really think that by telling them this (most, if not all of it lies, you know how some guys brag in order to make themselves look more appealing to females) it will make her think "oh my god, he's had so many women, I want a piece too"? Unless she's a cock loving whore (please forgive my language) then no, she will not.
6). Calling Them Bitches
Do I really need to say any more on this one? I think it speaks for itself, don't call her a bitch (even if she one, but if she's being a bitch, and you need to call her bitch then boy go ahead) but yea, if your planning to call her a bitch, make sure you wear a cup.
5). Saying You Will Call Her Tonight
If there's one that women really hate, is when you say "ah yea I'm busy, I'll call you back later, at around 8" then not doing so. Because when the clock hits 8 o'clock she will be sitting next to that phone till it rings, everything goes out the window because she will be expecting that all from you. But you know what it's like though, sometimes you just can't be asked to do it, maybe theres something on TV so you think ah what the heck, I'll call her later, then when you call her the next day she answers like you committed a crime "what do you want?" not even a hello, or simply, she doesn't answer your calls.
4). Grabbing Their Bits
We've all seen it, your in a club dancing, some people are smashed off their face, some are pretending to be and consciously know what they're doing, see a girl they like the look of, and grab their arse, (the ladies with the rather larger behind know what I'm talking about and probably get it on a regular basis). Its not cool, they feel violated when boys do it, one day your gonna do it to a girl who's had enough, she will flip, and you will get injured as a result.
3). Looking At Other Girls
This is something all of us guys do, I'm not even going to lie to you. Like you know when your walking along with a girl , and another girl who either has massive boobs, or is packing some junk walks past, we look it's not because we want to, but it's just a reflex action, or when your sitting down having something to eat, then bam! A nice looking girl catches your attention, and without noticing you slightly defer yourself from the conversation and your eyes stray as the other girl walks past. You think women don't nice it? Well guess what they do, they notice everything.
2). Manners
Women hate it, sorry let me say that again, women hate it! when guys fart, burp, chew with your mouth open, chew loudly, regurgitate, make your stomach rumble anything that's just borderline inappropriate. Yea we thing its funny, and you can do it around your friends, but a women isn't "one of the boys" she doesn't want to smell your digested food and toxic fumes, it is just a turn off, its disgusting and shows your level of maturity. If that's how you entice women by farting, then boy, you need to go to one of those sessions where the teach you how to be behave and act appropriately in front of women. Having some manners can go a long way.
1). Braging About Criminal Activities
This one had me rolling on the floor laughing I tell you. If you really think that telling a girl you have been in prison is gonna impress a girl, then you have mental issues or you have been in jail for too long, you know those guys who say "yea yea I was in pen for 2 yers init, man got done for GBH init," by the time you say "I was in pen" she would have already planned out her escape route and upped and left already. The only women you will attract is one that is either planning to frame you from a crime she is going to commit, or she wants assistance in committing a crime herself.
I hope this will assist you in becoming a better man. Mind you, there will be a part 2 with more serious issues, I just simply couldn't do all 20 reasons in one go, it would have been way too long.
till next time, adios.
